“It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year”

December ushers in the first day of winter/winter solstice (December 21), Hanukkah (December 14-22), Christmas (December 25), Kwanzaa (December 26-January 1), and New Year's Eve (December 31).

With all its celebrations and festivities (be sure to check out our Events Calendar on pages 6-11 for fun activities close to home), many would agree that December truly is "the most wonderful time of the year." But we must remember that there are also lots of people who struggle during the holiday season. So, if you can do anything to brighten someone's day or lighten their load, it may be one of the most appreciated gifts you can give.

The expectations many have at this time of year can also breed stress, which may create sources of contention among friends and family, so don't forget to love yourself enough to set some personal limits. A wise person once said, "Unconditional love doesn't mean unconditional tolerance of abuse or disrespect — it's not unconditional boundaries," and it also shouldn't require you to overextend yourself.

But, if we focus on the true "reason for the season," the importance of each one of these upcoming holidays, we will notice that there is a common thread that runs through them all: light.

"Ring the bells that still can ring
Forget your perfect offering
There is a crack in everything
That's how the light gets in"
-Leonard Cohen

Wishing you peace, love, and light,